Part 10 of 12 · Marriage, Covenant, and Faithfulness
Bound Loosed and Free to Marry
Consider remarriage without forcing one verse to answer every case.

“The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.”
1 Corinthians 7:39 KJV
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Open each passage to read the complete assigned verses here. The links above also let you read the surrounding chapters.
1 Corinthians 7:25–40 KJV
25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;
30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;
31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.
38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.
Read in your Bible or open the passage ↗Romans 7:1–6 KJV
1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
4 Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.
5 For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death.
6 But now we are delivered from the law, that being dead wherein we were held; that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter.
Read in your Bible or open the passage ↗Matthew 19:9–12 KJV
9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Read in your Bible or open the passage ↗Read bound and loosed with the surrounding argument
First Corinthians 7:25 introduces the discussion of virgins, verse 26 names the present distress, and verses 27–28 address being bound or loosed and marrying without sin. Interpreters differ about whether the loosed person includes someone released through divorce or whether the immediate discussion primarily concerns people without an existing marriage, including betrothal situations.
The passage is important evidence, but the phrase thou hast not sinned cannot simply become a universal permission for every divorced person without explaining verses 10–11 and 39. Conversely, a restrictive interpretation needs to explain whom Paul describes as loosed and how his stated permission works. A conclusion should answer the difficult verses on both sides.
Include Romans 7 rather than passing over it
Romans 7:1–6 uses a marriage bond and release through death to explain the believer’s changed relationship to the law through Christ. Its main argument concerns law, death, and new service in the Spirit. The marital example nevertheless depends on the reality of a binding obligation and the wrong of an adulterous union. We should neither turn the illustration into an exhaustive treatment of every divorce case nor dismiss its moral content because it is an illustration.
First Corinthians 7:39 expressly gives a widow liberty to marry, only in the Lord. Death and release are therefore directly addressed. Whether other circumstances also bring release must be examined from Matthew’s exception and Paul’s abandonment passage. This is one reason covenant violation, formal divorce, and freedom to remarry need separate attention.
State the conclusion at the strength of the evidence
There are substantial biblical grounds for examining divorce beyond a discussion of adultery alone, especially the abandonment case in 1 Corinthians 7:15. That statement is more precise than claiming Scripture directly lists every modern form of abuse as an explicit divorce exception. The case concerning severe abuse draws together abandonment, marital obligations, the condemnation of oppression, and the responsibility to protect.
Christians who permit remarriage on certain grounds and Christians who hold a more restrictive view must both take the whole discussion seriously. The purpose of naming the disagreement is to identify where an argument must be made, not to imply that every interpretation is equally persuasive. A personal conclusion needs an honest account of the relevant marriage history and the passages being applied.
Who is being addressed
In 1 Corinthians 7:27–28, Paul addresses someone bound to a wife and someone loosed from a wife, then says that marrying is not sin. The surrounding section begins with virgins and the present distress. Interpreters differ over how the categories fit together and whether ‘loosed’ includes divorced people, the previously unmarried, or those released from a betrothal.
We shouldn’t turn verse 28 into an unrestricted declaration that every divorced person may remarry. As we saw in Lesson 9, a description of someone’s status and an instruction about marrying are distinct. Our reading needs to explain the audience, the surrounding argument, and the relationship to verses 8–15 and 39.
Bring all the passages together
Verse 39 explicitly permits a widow to marry, ‘only in the Lord.’ Romans 7 also uses the release brought by a spouse’s death, within an illustration about the believer’s relationship to the law. That illustration affirms marriage’s binding character, but it isn’t presented as a detailed discussion of every divorce exception.
Broadly, Christians hold several positions: remarriage only after a spouse’s death; remarriage after certain recognized grounds such as sexual immorality or desertion; and views that include severe abuse within abandonment or covenant repudiation. Each position has internal differences. These are distinct ways of bringing the passages together, rather than identical statements found in a single verse.
This study establishes that death explicitly releases the bond, that Matthew’s exception and Paul’s abandonment passage must be addressed, and that abuse as a ground requires a further interpretive argument. It doesn’t issue a personal ruling about a reader’s freedom to remarry. That discernment requires the relevant facts, careful study, and trustworthy counsel.
No one’s worth or place in the body of Christ should be reduced to a marital label. Careful moral discernment and compassionate belonging can exist together.
Reflect
Sit with the question
- How does the discussion beginning in verse 25 affect the interpretation of verses 27–28?
- What does verse 39 explicitly permit?
- Can I explain the strongest biblical objection to my view fairly?
Practice
Take one faithful step
Use the interpretation comparison below. Write what each view must explain before deciding which account you find most faithful to the whole text.
Pray
Bring it before God
Lord, guide me in truth without fear or haste. Help me seek counsel that is both honest with Scripture and attentive to the realities of people’s lives. Amen.
Truth to carryCareful moral discernment and compassionate belonging can exist together.