Retreat Foundation and Opening
Psalm 34:18 (KJV) “The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.” |
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Opening Aim
Help participants understand that they are not being asked to relive every painful moment or prove how deeply they have been hurt. Christ meets people in truth. He is not frightened by grief, confused by fear, or disappointed by the fact that healing takes time.
Suggested Welcome
Say: “Welcome to Restored. You do not have to share anything you are not ready to share. You do not have to force a feeling, forgive on command, or pretend that one afternoon can resolve an entire story. You may write privately, pass during conversation, step out for a moment, or ask for support. We are here to tell the truth, listen for Christ, and take one faithful step.”
Where Restoration Begins
Restoration does not begin with pretending the wound did not matter. It begins when we stop asking pain, fear, shame, or regret to tell us who we are and what happens next. We bring the real story to God. We let Him separate what happened from the conclusions we formed. We receive truth, mercy, wisdom, and help one step at a time.
Some people will need to repent. Some will need to grieve. Some will need to forgive. Some will need a boundary. Some will need to receive care. Some will simply need language for a burden they have carried so long that it began feeling normal. The work is not identical for everyone, but Christ is sufficient for every honest beginning.
How to Frame the Gospel
Do not assume everyone already knows Christ. Explain that Christian healing is rooted in relationship with Jesus, not in positive thinking or a spiritual experience. Keep the gospel present throughout the afternoon, then offer a focused invitation near the end. Do not ask participants to make an early public response.
Settling Question
Invite participants to write privately: “What do I hope God might help me notice today?” Make clear that they do not need to name the most painful part of their story.
Opening Prayer
“Father, thank You that You are near to the brokenhearted. Help us be honest without becoming overwhelmed. Bring truth where pain has confused us, mercy where shame has accused us, and wisdom where we need a faithful next step. Keep our eyes on Jesus. Let this afternoon be gentle, clear, and useful. In Jesus’ name, amen.”